BLOG

Healing
Your Relationship with Your Mother Through Faith

By Vanessa Horabuena

Our relationship with our mothers is one of the most intimate and significant relationships we can have. Yet, it can be complicated, and sometimes things don't always go as planned. For some of us, our relationship with our mom may be strained or even broken.

But there is hope. Through faith, we can find the path to healing our relationship with our mothers.

Forgiveness Is Key

As Christians, we are called to forgive others as God has forgiven us. This includes our mothers. It's important to understand that forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting or condoning what has happened. But it does mean releasing ourselves from the burden of anger and bitterness. In order to heal our relationship with our mothers, we need to forgive them and ourselves for any past hurts or mistakes.

Communication Is Crucial

Often, misunderstandings and miscommunications can lead to strained relationships. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with our mothers, expressing our emotions and concerns in a respectful way. Try to listen to your mother's perspective and acknowledge her feelings as well. Communication is the key to building stronger relationships, and it's never too late to start.

Prayer Can Bring Healing

As Christians, we believe in the power of prayer. Praying for our mothers can bring healing and peace to our relationship. Prayer can also help us to let go of any negative emotions and surrender our pain to God. Ask God to heal the brokenness in your relationship and to guide you in ways to show love and kindness to your mother.

Focusing on Our Similarities

We should focus on what we have in common with our mothers instead of dwelling on our differences. God created us all uniquely, yet we are all created in His image. By focusing on our similarities, we can bond over shared interests, values, and experiences. This can help to build a stronger foundation for a loving relationship.

Time Can Heal

Finally, healing takes time. It's essential to be patient with ourselves and our mothers, allowing time for wounds to heal and relationships to develop. We should also be willing to seek the guidance of a pastor or counselor if needed. Remember, God's love is patient, kind, and enduring. We should strive to show that same love and grace in our relationship with our mothers.

Healing our relationship with our mothers can be a complex and emotional process, but through faith, it is possible. As Christians, we are called to love one another and to seek forgiveness and reconciliation.

By practicing forgiveness and communication, praying for healing, focusing on our similarities, and being patient, we can build stronger, loving relationships with our mothers.

Ultimately, it's up to us to take the first step and trust in God's guidance along the way.

Need a loving reminder of God’s love and promise?

Purchase “Intimacy With God” as a powerful reminder of comfort during difficult times.

Click here to view Vanessa’s masterful artwork here.